On [the not-so-fine art of] negativity and the importance of hedging your bets
After my last post, I was asked this: ‘are all your posts going to be so negative?’ From the falling intonation and the forlorn look on my interlocutor’s face, I think she was somewhat disappointed with my, uh, ‘tone’ in my last offering. A few days later, I was asked an almost identical question, yet with a completely different look and sound of expectation and delight: ‘are all your posts going to be about complaining and the things that people do to annoy you?’ This time it was said with rising intonation and a look of ‘oh, please, more, more, more!’ I said something like ‘most probably.’ She broke into a wide smile and started rubbing her hands with glee. A fellow misanthrope! Hey, you can’t please everyone “The safest way of not being very miserable is not to expect to be very happy.” Schopenhauer “Have I not the reason to hate and to despise myself? Indeed I do; and chiefly for not having hated and despised the world enough.” William Hazlitt, On the P...